Looking for a chat buddy

Lately I keep running into the same problem. Whenever I work on an spn kink fic, , I can't seem to find people who are genuinely interested in both kink, particulary non-con, and spn.

I don't like talking about fics through mail or pm, can't really say why, but I've always felt it'e impersonal, and you don't really get to know people through it. (what can I say, I've never been much into writing letters or penpals, even when I was a kid.

Yet every time I ask for people to talk about fics with on sp_haven, even when people respond, no one ever seems to be willing to talk on messenger.

I'm a very good listener, and I'm more than willing to let other people talk about their fics and show me what they're working on and telling them what I think of it and stuff...

But it's just that when I'm working on a fill for a prompt on the spn kink meme, the only person I've got who's willing to follow along with me, isn't really an spn fan. I've managed to get her to start watching the show, but she's not into spn fics, so she's only reading along for my sake.

Isn't there anyone out there who's interested in being a chat buddy? I'm on AIM, YIM and MSN Messenger.